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Imagine waking up one morning to find your own skin too tight. Not metaphorically — literally. You'd have to peel it off, the old you, to make room for the one growing underneath. Urgh. I cringe just picturing it.
And yet this is simply Monday for a snake.
A snake's body never stops growing, but its outer layer of scales doesn't stretch to keep up. So a new skin quietly forms beneath the old one, and when the old layer becomes too small, it has to go. The shedding does more than make room, too. It clears off the dirt, scratches and small parasites picked up from months of moving along the ground. It repairs the wear and tear. And because a snake has no eyelids, only a clear scale protecting each eye, shedding is also how it keeps its sight sharp.
There's a vulnerable stretch just before it happens. The snake's eyes cloud over, milky and dull, and for a few uncomfortable days it can barely see. It hides. It stops eating. It grows defensive, because a creature that cannot see clearly is a creature that does not feel safe. Only once the old skin peels away, from head to tail, does it emerge again — brighter, cleaner, more able to move than before.
Here's the part worth sitting with a little longer than you planned to.
Through all of it, the snake never becomes a different creature. It doesn't shed its way into something else. It stays exactly what it always was, only unburdened.
I think we get this the wrong way round sometimes. We look at someone we admire and quietly try to grow into their shape — their habits, their voice, their version of a life going well — as though becoming more like them is the goal. But maybe growth was never about becoming someone else. Maybe it was only ever about becoming more fully who we already are, once the outgrown layer is gone.
The "skin" we shed is whatever we've outgrown and need to release: the old belief that no longer fits, the identity we built to survive a season that has already ended, the habits that made sense once and don't any more. We don't emerge a better version, as though the person before was somehow lesser. We emerge a grown, matured version — the same nature, only clearer, only closer to what was there all along.
An unwillingness to shed doesn't protect that nature. It just keeps it hidden under something too tight, hoping no one notices it doesn't fit.
The uncomfortable stretch — the cloudy eyes, the hiding, the not-quite-knowing — isn't a sign that something has gone wrong. It might be the sign that something is finally ready to come off.
What have you been carrying that was never really you — only something you grew for a season and never thought to shed?
